251. This refers to the mahr (bridal gift) and the jewellery, clothes and
so on which the husband offers as a gift to his wife, and to which he has no
right of reclaim. It is, indeed, normally inconsistent with Islamic ethics that
a person should reclaim anything he has made over to another by way of donation
or gift. In the Hadith this disgraceful act is likened to a dog licking its
own vomit. (See Bukhari, 'Hibah', 30; Nasiii, 'Hibah', 3, etc. - Ed.)
In the case of a husband, in particular, it is a matter of the utmost disgrace
that, at the time of saying farewell to his divorced wife he should try to dispossess
her of what he had once given her out of his own goodwill. On the contrary,
the morals that Islam seeks to cultivate require that at the time of parting
the husband ought to present her with a farewell gift. See
(verse 241 below.)