أَوْ مَوْعُوكٌ أَوْ وارأساه ونحو ذلك . وبيان أنَّه لا كراهة في ذلكإِذَا لَمْ يكن عَلَى وجه التسخط وإظهار الجزع
[914] عن ابن مسعود قال : دَخَلْتُ عَلَى النَّبيِّ وَهُوَ يُوعَكُ ، فَمَسسْتُهُ ، فَقلتُ : إنَّكَ لَتُوعَكُ وَعَكاً شَديداً ، فَقَالَ : « أجَلْ ، إنِّي أُوعَكُ كَمَا يُوعَكُ رَجُلانِ مِنْكُمْ » . متفقٌ عَلَيْهِِ . فيه : جواز إخبار المريض لمن سأله بما يجده من الألم ، وأنه كلما اشتد وجعه عظم أجره .
914. Ibn Mas'ud (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: I visited the Prophet ({PBUH) while he was suffering. I said: "(O Messenger of Allah!) You suffer too much." He said, "Yes, I suffer as much as two men of you."
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary: This Hadith also throws light on the fact that the Prophet (PBUH) was merely a human being. Besides, it tells us that one is at liberty to speak of one's suffering.
[915] وعن سعدِ بن أَبي وقاصٍ قال : جَاءني رسولُ الله يَعُودُنِي مِنْ وَجَعٍ اشْتَدَّ بِي ، فقلتُ: بَلَغَ بِي مَا تَرَى ، وَأنَا ذُو مَالٍ ، وَلا يَرِثُنِي إِلا ابْنَتِي .. وذَكر الحديث . متفقٌ عَلَيْهِ . الشاهد من الحديث تقرير النبي سعدًا على قوله : ( بلغ بي من الوجع ما ترى ) ، ولو كان منهيًّا عنه لنهاه .
915. Sa'd bin Abu Waqqas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) came to visit me when I had a severe pain. I said: "I am suffering from such trouble as you are observing. I am a wealthy man and the only heir of mine is my daughter." (Then Sa'd narrated the whole incident).
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
[916] وعن القاسم بن محمد قَالَ : قالت عائشةُ رضي الله عنها : وَارَأسَاهُ ! فَقَالَ النَّبيُّ : « بَلْ أنَا ، وَارَأسَاهُ ! » ... وذكر الحديث . رواه البخاري . فيه : جواز مثل ذلك إذا لم يكن على وجه التسخط والجزع .
916. Al-Qasim bin Muhammad reported 'Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) said: "Oh, my head." (It was hurting due to pain.) Thereupon the Prophet (PBUH) said, "Rather it is I who says: 'Oh, my headache."' (Then Al-Qasim narrated the complete narration).
[Al-Bukhari].
Commentary: 'Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) had a headache and she told the Prophet (PBUH) about it. He said, "My head too is splitting with pain." This means that a man can express the intensity of his pain and suffering, provided he has no intention to complain against the Will of Allah and point out his sorrow and frustration. Al-Qasim bin Muhammad bin Abu Bakr, the reporter of this Hadith, was 'Aishah's nephew and one of the seven distinguished jurists of Al-Madinah.
